A relationship with no gender roles>
We both hustle, we both cook, we both clean, we both pay, we both spoil each other.
it frustrates me how hard men attack women they feel have slighted them but will laugh with their homeboys when they make fun of shit that really hurts their feelings or dismisses their emotions or trivializes their issues. it makes me sad the amount of deep convos i’ve had with men where they share some real shit and i ask them if they talk to their friends about it and they laugh and say “nah they’d call me gay or some shit”.
it’s pretty common for people discussing rape culture within feminist discourse to conveniently leave out disabled girls, but this is just a casual reminder that disabled women are far more likely to be sexually assaulted, abused or raped than able-bodied women. on top of that, 50% of deaf girls and 54% of deaf boys have been sexually abused or assaulted. so please stop leaving us out of your discussion about rape culture.
tbh as of right now i’m more interested in looking beautiful and dressing nice and looking highly appealing and being intensely desired sexually more than i’m into the idea of having actual sex.